No. No you don't.
Love is something somebody else gives you of their own free will. You may have no entitlement to that which belongs exclusively to others. Any sense to the contrary is, at root, evil.
This is the boundary over which no welfare line may cross, lest it give up all pretense of freedom or individual choice.
This is also a line I see a few special interest groups, such as transexual activists, toeing. Knock it off, people.